Weddings by Rev. Carol Behar » Rev. Carol Behar is an experienced Wedding Officiant and Interfaith Minister in Santa Barbara, California.

The Creative Process


The Creative Process

It starts with a Complimentary Meeting to discuss what visions you hold for your Wedding ceremony.

My passion is to deliver a wedding ceremony that is creative, heart-felt, beautifully crafted and personalized just for you. I would be so honored to create THE ceremony that will express your heart-felt desires and welcome the opportunity to get to know you.

Our first meeting will be guided by a series of questions to determine the kind of service you had envisioned, getting to know each other and discussing any preferences you may have for your special day. Once this has been established and I have all the elements that make up your love story – type of service (interfaith/traditional/non-traditional/civil union); what kind of readings you prefer, rituals, customs, music (traditional, modern, contemporary) and length of service, I will then draft a ceremony that reflects those visions for your review and consideration. If you have any edits or further suggestions you would like to make, I will write and re-write as necessary until it fully meets with your approval and satisfaction.

Together, we will create a beautiful presentation of your love and commitment to each other through this process or if you select one of my sample ceremonies, I will personalize it just for you. Whichever you choose, your ceremony will reflect your love, your vision, and your heartfelt story until it meets with your complete approval.  I know that wedding planning can be quite stressful and it is my goal to do everything possible to make it easy for you. My entire focus will be to capture all the precious moments of your wedding day story by finding the right balance to make your ceremony truly….Unforgettable.

I will be fully available for any questions and/or consultations that will assist me in bringing your visions to life. I will expertly craft an amazing event for you and deliver it to perfection.  I have years of experience and I am dedicated to having your special day reflect your style, taste, history together, personality, values and beliefs as individuals and as a couple, so you can relax and enjoy your celebration.

There is only one Love Story like yours and it deserves to be heard.

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